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    Just a Few Hints For Gentlemen Who Are Starting to Hobby and Have SO's

    1.. Please delete any and all txt's if you don't have a hobby phone. Best thing to do is spend a few dollars on a hobby phone as this will save you money in the long run and less heart break. If you have a hobby phone and you only hobby during the work day why not just leave it at work where you know it will be safe.

    2.. If you use e-mail, create a dummy account and DO NOT use your regular email address... When you create this dummy account do not use your real name during set up and especially DO NOT allow last names to be shown. Also delete these emails as soon as possible.

    3.. If you must write down any information please hide this information somewhere secure. DO NOT leave in wallet or pocket or any place that SO can search. If needed write this information down in code, for example, car repairs, doctors appointment, business prospect, checking out a gym, etc.

    4.. If you are visiting between work and home time carry a little travel case with you with whatever soap or shampoo you use if it has a specific scent. That way you smell just the way you should when you go home.

    5.. If you drive a noticeable (?) vehicle park in a busy parking lot near the place you are visiting and walk a wee bit. Some gentlemen will use the bus system or even cab it to the location.

    6.. If you have a regular escort you see and you want to buy her something special DO NOT buy it on your credit card.

    7.. If you want to save her number on your phone DO NOT use her real name. Come up with a name that you will remember and if you want let your escort know that name just in case.

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    Also have as much sex with your wife as she wants too. Take care of your shit at home before going to get your extra.

    If youchange your grooming habits suddenly can be a tell. Make sure she knows you are doing it for HER.

    Don't leave a paper trail. Make sure any cash used is from your own money and no joint accounts.

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    Quote Originally Posted by PlayfulExperience View Post
    Just a Few Hints For Gentlemen Who Are Starting to Hobby and Have SO's
    Excellent post and very good advice Playfull!
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    All very good advice. I got caught because she read my email. The relationship survived.
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    Good advice, but just to add:
    Delete all texts from hobby phone after session. Also, call log.
    Never take H phone into your home.
    Always cover your hobby time with normal scheduled activities like going to gym. New activities that take time away from home arouse suspicion.

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    All good advice IMO.

    I'd add always try and have a reasonable excuse for being in the SP/MP's area in the off chance someone sees you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by PlayfulExperience View Post
    Just a Few Hints For Gentlemen Who Are Starting to Hobby and Have SO's

    1.. Please delete any and all txt's if you don't have a hobby phone. Best thing to do is spend a few dollars on a hobby phone as this will save you money in the long run and less heart break. If you have a hobby phone and you only hobby during the work day why not just leave it at work where you know it will be safe.

    2.. If you use e-mail, create a dummy account and DO NOT use your regular email address... When you create this dummy account do not use your real name during set up and especially DO NOT allow last names to be shown. Also delete these emails as soon as possible.

    3.. If you must write down any information please hide this information somewhere secure. DO NOT leave in wallet or pocket or any place that SO can search. If needed write this information down in code, for example, car repairs, doctors appointment, business prospect, checking out a gym, etc.

    4.. If you are visiting between work and home time carry a little travel case with you with whatever soap or shampoo you use if it has a specific scent. That way you smell just the way you should when you go home.

    5.. If you drive a noticeable (?) vehicle park in a busy parking lot near the place you are visiting and walk a wee bit. Some gentlemen will use the bus system or even cab it to the location.

    6.. If you have a regular escort you see and you want to buy her something special DO NOT buy it on your credit card.

    7.. If you want to save her number on your phone DO NOT use her real name. Come up with a name that you will remember and if you want let your escort know that name just in case.
    Did someone get an angry phone call from an angry wife?

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    Quote Originally Posted by PlayfulExperience View Post
    Just a Few Hints For Gentlemen Who Are Starting to Hobby and Have SO's

    1.. Please delete any and all txt's if you don't have a hobby phone. Best thing to do is spend a few dollars on a hobby phone as this will save you money in the long run and less heart break. If you have a hobby phone and you only hobby during the work day why not just leave it at work where you know it will be safe.

    2.. If you use e-mail, create a dummy account and DO NOT use your regular email address... When you create this dummy account do not use your real name during set up and especially DO NOT allow last names to be shown. Also delete these emails as soon as possible.

    3.. If you must write down any information please hide this information somewhere secure. DO NOT leave in wallet or pocket or any place that SO can search. If needed write this information down in code, for example, car repairs, doctors appointment, business prospect, checking out a gym, etc.

    4.. If you are visiting between work and home time carry a little travel case with you with whatever soap or shampoo you use if it has a specific scent. That way you smell just the way you should when you go home.

    5.. If you drive a noticeable (?) vehicle park in a busy parking lot near the place you are visiting and walk a wee bit. Some gentlemen will use the bus system or even cab it to the location.

    6.. If you have a regular escort you see and you want to buy her something special DO NOT buy it on your credit card.

    7.. If you want to save her number on your phone DO NOT use her real name. Come up with a name that you will remember and if you want let your escort know that name just in case.
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    Your name should be wiseexperience, great, common sense advice. Thanks.

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    Quote Originally Posted by mongrel4u View Post
    All very good advice. I got caught because she read my email. The relationship survived.
    Same here, thanked a MP for the great time and enquired about her duo, that's the email that nailed me.

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    Here is one for the ladies...new to the biz and veterans alike...
    If you store our #'s...put them in a safe place..FFS
    I have been pocket dialed 3 times in the last 2 months...by some ladies I see
    Luckily my phone is always on vibrate and in my pocket.....or off
    And each one has a code name...so if it ever is seen...its just oh its just..******* wanting to go out for drinks

    Another..

    Dont start off a conversation with...
    Hey baby hows it going.....
    A simple ...Hey...will let us know you want to connect for some reason..

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    If you have an SO and actually care for her don't do it, or don't forget, if you can, she can and its ok, goes both ways, so do you actually have an SO....

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dragslaye View Post
    0. get your SO go ahead (you must be willing to let her play around too)

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    Cover up your every step and have an alibi for where you are.

    Find a buddy you can trust and tell him so he knows where you are.

    I came back a day earlier from my US trip and booked my favorite SP to see me at my hotel. I actually saw somebody I knew from my home community at the airport in the US. What are the chances? Fortunately I had a layover and if it comes up my excuse to my S/O is that I was on my way to the layover location - Houston, TX and doing a stopover there.

    We will see......

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    And not just your SOs guys, you mama boys keep your stuff hidden too! I just received phone calls from a curious MOTHER! He was sending me explicit text and she was certain I must be a secret girlfriend!

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    Quote Originally Posted by R.oxo View Post
    And not just your SOs guys, you mama boys keep your stuff hidden too! I just received phone calls from a curious MOTHER! He was sending me explicit text and she was certain I must be a secret girlfriend!
    Yeah...It's unfortunate!!! JackMeOff's Mom won't let him have a girlfriend. She must've confiscated his cell phone and looked through it.








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    Quote Originally Posted by Conway_Stewart View Post
    Yeah...It's unfortunate!!! JackMeOff's Mom won't let him have a girlfriend. She must've confiscated his cell phone and looked through it.

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    This thread is supposed to be helpful not a snark fest or turned into a joke.

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    Quote Originally Posted by PlayfulExperience View Post
    This thread is supposed to be helpful not a snark fest or turned into a joke.
    Hey sweetheart, it was good thought of yours and there was some good points made before the dickheadeness started...you have nothing to be ashamed of.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Conway_Stewart View Post
    Yeah...It's unfortunate!!! JackMeOff's Mom won't let him have a girlfriend. She must've confiscated his cell phone and looked through it.
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    Relax, I've taken enough playful jabs at Conway that it's only fair he lands a couple back. My skin isn't so thin that a few momma's boy jokes are going to keep me up at night crying.

    Besides, I am a bit of a momma's boy, and Conway should know it... we can smell our own :)

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    Quote Originally Posted by Conway_Stewart View Post
    Yeah...It's unfortunate!!! JackMeOff's Mom won't let him have a girlfriend. She must've confiscated his cell phone and looked through it.


    Why must you derail perfectly good threads with this BS. No one should be allowed to do this, and a MOD should know this.

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